How to Tell If a Girl Likes You

How to Tell If a Girl Likes You

To some, girls can seem like fickle creatures. Completely unreadable to those except the most experienced. Some people just don't know how to tell if a girl likes you. However, when looking for signs of mutual attraction, there are a few things that you can look for in girls that will help you determine if she likes you, too.

Are Her Arms Crossed? Bad Sign


When it comes to body language, sometimes it makes it easy to rule a girl out, as well as rule one in. If you're talking to a girl, and she keeps her arms crossed for most of the conversation, then she likely feels uncomfortable around you. Obviously, you can discount this if it's cold, but, otherwise, it's a bad sign.

Does She Mirror Your Movements? Great!


When somebody mirrors another person's movements and actions, that means that that person is feeling like they're in sync with the other. They truly feel connected, and are connected enough to act like one another. This goes for both body language and words; if she starts spouting off your catchphrases, you're doing great!

Are Her Pupils Dilated? She Might Like You!


This one is completely scientific, and not something that a girl can control, unlike the previous tips. If you think a girl that you're talking to likes you, get a good look at her eyes. If her pupils have gotten larger, then that's a good sign that she's into you, too. Bonus:  Looking into her eyes is definitely romantic!

Does She Touch You a Lot? Probably So!


When a girl likes you, she'll reach out for physical contact in innocuous, if flirtatious, ways. This can include hugs at absolutely random times, constantly touching your shoulder when talking, and wanting to play with your hair. If you have a girl who is always looking for excuses to touch you, then she might like you.

If She Acts Nervous, It's Good!


Just like guys, girls get really nervous when they like somebody. This is especially true early on, when she doesn't know him as well as she does other guys. If you're talking to a girl that you like, and you catch her acting nervous, yet also happy to be talking to you, then that is an excellent sign that she likes you.

Take Note of How Her Friends Act


A girl's friends can really tip you off on whether or not she likes you simply through their actions. While the girl might be secretive, her friends will likely want to tease her and push her to talk to you. If you see her friends staring at you and giggling, or whispering to her whenever you're around, it might mean that she's interested.

Ask Her Out...It's Definite Then


There's really only one way to know for sure:  You have to ask her out. Yes, it might not be easy, and it might be absolutely nerve-wracking. But there's no other way to figure out if she likes you or not, and there's no other way to start a good relationship. Take a deep breath, walk up to her, and hope for the best!

Hopefully, this article has helped you demystify women a bit. It shows that they are just as nervous, clueless, and, hopefully, in love as you are.

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